On October 23rd, this website is rich in material age, we can provide more and more choices for children: toys that can’t be counted, clothes that can’t be finished, food that can’t be eaten... But the happiness of children, Will you be happier because you choose more? First, no! The more you choose, the less happy your child may be. In a park, a little boy is swinging quietly. At this time, he saw no one on the slide next to him. He ran to the slide and then looked at the children playing the seesaw. The little boy hurried again. Abandon the slide and rush to the seesaw... At this time, another little girl came over to play the swing. After seeing the boy, he quickly came down from the seesaw and rushed to the swing to prevent the little girl from playing. The little girl did not follow, the little boy pushed her, and the little boy's mother was very angry: "Is eating in the bowl, looking at the pot, are you so greedy?" The little boy cried awkwardly! In fact, the little boy is not greedy, but when there are more choices, it is difficult for the child to get 100% happiness from these choices. For example, when swinging, the child may be thinking "waiting for me to go to the slide." When I was playing the slide, I saw the seesaw and I started the idea of ​​the seesaw. Finally, when I saw someone playing the swing, the child suddenly remembered the swing: "I don't play the seesaw, I have to swing!" Numerous choices distracted the child's attention, so that his happiness was also discounted, and happiness was reduced. If the child can choose not so much, he can only play swings or play slides, so no matter what he plays, he can enjoy the happiness. Second, the more choices, the lower the child's concentration may be Choosing more, it will also bring a downside, that is, the child's concentration will be lower. Psychologist Barry Schwartz has done one such experiment: In the study, he randomly divided the children into two groups of paintings. The first group of children can choose one of the three brushes, and the second group can choose one of the two. As a result, the children in the second group were much worse than the ones in the first group. Later, the researchers asked the children to choose one of their favorite pens, and then tried to persuade the children to give up the pen to choose another gift, and the second group of children was more likely to give up the pen of their choice. We often think that the more substances we provide to our children, the happier the children will be. Actually, the opposite is true! Too many choices will make the children mess up in front of the choice, not knowing what they like best, and even less after they get it. Cherish. Third, to avoid excessive selection, what should parents do? There are not many toys, just right Too many toys are not only easy to distract children, but also bad for children's intellectual development. So, how many toys should you give your child? American Virginia scholars believe that it should be five. The reason is that when there are less than 5 toys, the child may have inferiority; but if the number is more than 5, the child is prone to distraction and limits their creativity. There are not many toys. The children can focus on the toys they like, and study, ponder, think and create a variety of new ways of playing. In this case, the value of the toys can be maximized. Some mothers may have to entangle, what five toys are best for the children? These toys are classics in the process of growing up, and they make the most sense for your child's growth. 1, assembling toys (building blocks, snowflake): simple style, playable change, small baby can play; 2, sports toys (small balls, carts): In addition to fun, but also promote the child's movements; 3, graffiti toys (brush, colored paper): each child is the most outstanding painter, can play the child's unlimited imagination; 4, plush toys (cloth dolls, teddy bears): will be given life by children, the original playmates of childhood; 5, music toys: (toy drum, toy piano): let the children listen carefully to different sounds. Don't be greedy for clothes, less and fine is the best choice. If you are a mother who loves to lose, seeing good-looking children's clothes will be completely unresisting. The clothes at home have already piled up into mountains. You can't help but buy and buy them. Then, when you see the full wardrobe, Do you feel too impulsive and too irrational when you are in a messy room? Japanese psychologists suggested: Children over 4 years of age, no more than 5 sets of clothes per season, or even less, can fully meet the needs of children; at the same time, the shoes provided to children do not need more than 3 pairs (including household slippers), hats do not exceed 1 top. Maybe some mothers will say, "My children are still small, and 5 sets are not enough!" Then it can be as little as possible, as simple as possible, and can meet the actual needs. In particular, you can't buy too much clothes for your children because of cheapness. Looking at a bunch of cheap, poor quality clothes at home, you will be really crazy. A neat room allows children to focus more on play and exploration. Living in a space full of clothes and toys is more likely to make people feel bored and depressed, and their emotions will be affected. 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